How do I tell my parents that I want to go abroad on my own?

You feel the travel bug itching and are ready to go on a solo adventure. However, there is one obstacle: your parents aren’t quite convinced yet, and that’s an understatement. To convince them that you’re old enough for solo travel and that the destination is safe, it’s time for a different approach. Here are tips to show your parents that you are ready for solo travel. Good luck!

How do I tell my parents that I want to go abroad on my own?

1.) Explain why you want to travel solo and how this will help you grow. Tell your parents why you want to travel solo and emphasize how valuable this experience will be for you. Travel broadens your horizons and allows you to grow as a person.

2.) Make sure you are actually old enough and that the destination is safe Solo travel starting at 18 is a fine age, but it also depends on your personality. Do research to find out if the place you want to go is really safe.

3.) Show that you are responsible and independent Prove to your parents that you are responsible and independent. Show that you have your affairs in order, both at school and in everyday life.

4.) Invite an acquaintance who has also traveled solo If you know someone who has traveled solo to the same destination and who your parents also know, invite that person to talk to your parents. It can help tremendously if they hear from someone they trust that the destination is safe.

5.) Draw up a travel and financial plan A detailed plan makes your plans less scary for your parents. Make an itinerary and a financial plan so they know what you are planning and that you can handle it financially.

6.) Agree on regular contact Agreeing on how often you will keep in touch gives your parents reassurance. They know they will hear from you regularly.

7.) Have a conversation and present your plans If all the tips have not yet worked, have another conversation with your parents. Explain your plans calmly, listen to their objections and try to come to a compromise together.

8.) Let GapYear help you! We understand that it is difficult for your parents and that they would like more information about the possible employer or options abroad. We are happy to call your parents to answer their questions.